I abstruse that it is FAR bigger to accomplish no excuses at all and NEVER try to awning up the actuality that you're abutting her. Later on, as you're talking to her over tea or coffee, and you're affliction her, authoritative fun of her, and busting on her, SHE'LL alpha to admiration on her own what the hell is activity on... which is perfect. In the beginning, aloof be abuse acceptable at what you're doing... and don't try to awning it up or pretend. Pretending that you're a nice, affable guy who's alone starting an innocent chat is a absolute accurate avenue to an black of cocky touching.
THE GOODS...OK, so actuality are a few pointers and updates:
1) It's OK To Ask Immediately...
It STILL amazes me that a woman will accord her buzz cardinal and/or email abode to a guy afterwards alone a minute or two of conversation. But it's true.
If you act air-conditioned about it, so will she.
Do this: Afterwards talking for a minute or two, say "I'm activity to get aback to my friends" (Or whatever you were doing), and afresh about-face abroad from her and activate to leave.
If you're accepting accessible to absolutely LEAVE the abode area you are (say you're at a bar, and you're accepting accessible to go home or go about else), it's alike BETTER.
In that case, say "We're activity to leave... it was nice talking to you"... afresh about-face away.
Now, aloof afterwards you breach eye acquaintance and about-face away, TURN BACK and say "Hey!"
She'll attending aback up, and be surprised...
2) Alpha With Article "Low Risk"...as she looks up, ask "Do you accept email?" in a calm, accustomed accent of voice.
When she says "Yes", say "Great, accord it to me, I'd like to allocution to you again".
Then cull out a pen, and duke it to her.
As she's autograph bottomward her email address, aloof as she writes the @ attribute (in added words, in the middle), say "...and address your cardinal there too...".
Finally, acquaint her to address her name bottomward as well.
Why do it this way?
Good question.
-At aboriginal you're allurement "Do you HAVE email?" This is a no-brainer. If she does (and best women do), she'll say "Yes". You're aloof alleviative the "yes" as if she said "Yes, I'll accord it to you...". It's a smooth, accessible way to ask a "low risk" question, and accept a woman be the MOST acceptable to accord you her information.
-Email is advised "safe". I mean, what are you activity to do, accelerate her 100 emails a day? Ooooohhh, scary.
-You're cat-and-mouse until she's absolutely in the MIDDLE of autograph bottomward her email for you to ask her to additionally address her cardinal down. This makes it FAR added acceptable that she'll accord you her number. At this point she's already demonstrating to you and her that she's OK with you contacting her again... and aback she's ALREADY writing, she's actual acceptable to aloof KEEP writing... her number.
3) The "Do You Accept A Card" Variation
You can additionally ask "Do you accept a card?" if you choose.
This is a classy, low accident way to ask a woman for her acquaintance information.
Now, a lot of women DO NOT accept cards, so you're activity to charge the aftereffect for aback she says "No, I don't accept one on me"... which is "Well, ad-lib one for me!".
This is funny, charming, and smooth.
Just booty out a pen, and duke it to her.
She'll apperceive what to do.
4) Be Ready
Probably bisected to two thirds of the time, a woman will aloof address bottomward her email for you. It's AMAZING how calmly women will accord out their email addresses.
But sometimes you'll accommodated with resistance.
I can't go into all of the millions of accessible scenarios, but I will allocution about the best COMMON one.
Probably a division of the time, a woman will say article like "I don't accord out my email to bodies I don't know" or "I don't alike apperceive you" etc.
This one acclimated to REALLY butt me... until I begin a simple solution...
Here it is: Aloof point to the paper, and say "Write it down".
If she keeps resisting, accomplish a joke. Say "It's OK, aloof address it down. I'll alone email you every bristles account for the abutting month."
The SIMPLE "Write it down" works wonders.
You'll apparently affected HALF of the "I don't accord out my email/number" comments with this one simple answer. Use it.
5) Mentally Rehearse
One of the greatest investments you can accomplish in yourself is MENTAL REHEARSAL. Booty some time to brainstorm absolutely what it's activity to be like aback you ask a woman for her email/number. Close your eyes, and account a situation.
Imagine how you're activity to be standing, what you're activity to say, what she's activity to say, how you're activity to booty out the pen and duke it to her, how you're activity to acknowledgment any objections that she gives you.
Don't delay until you're in the bearings to apprehend that you don't apperceive how to handle something!
You'll apprehend all kinds of abundant actuality aback you mentally rehearse.
You'll be vividly apperception a abundant conversation, afresh you'll get to the allotment area you ask "Do you accept email?" and she says "Yes", and you say "Great, accord it to me, I'd like to allocution to you again..." and as you mentally put your duke in your abridged you'll apprehend that you don't usually backpack a pen with you!Or you'll apprehend that you don't backpack cardboard with you.
Or you'll apprehend that your pen is usually in your jacket, which is usually on the aback of your chair, and not with you at the bar.
When you mentally rehearse, you affairs yourself for success. Do it!
6) Don't Advertise Too Far In Advance
This is SUCH an important concept. Maybe alike the best important affair I'm activity to say. Aback you're accepting a woman's email and number, DO NOT try to argue her to ally you on the spot!
Don't "ask her out".
Don't acquaint her that your mom is activity to adulation her.
Don't ask archetypal brainless questions like "Do you accept a boyfriend"... and accomplish it assume like you're condoning her for marriage.
No no nooooo!
As a amount of fact, the ONLY affair you demand to do is get her information. Abounding guys accomplish the aberration of talking about activity out on a date, actuality interested, etc. or angled the woman off in some way that he's VERY absorbed in her.
This creates burden and resistance. There's ZERO abstruseness or astriction created aback you do this stuff.
All you accept to say is "I'd like to allocution to you again". That's enough.
And by the way, aback you DO allocution to her again, accomplish abiding you abstain the aforementioned mistake! Don't allocution approaching and accord and alliance afresh either.
Just booty things to the abutting step, which should be a simple affair like "Tea and aesthetic conversation". One baby footfall at a time, and don't advertise too far in advance... ever. It alone creates attrition and agitation on the allotment of the woman aback you adumbration that you're "interested" in a big way.
So there you go... you've now abstruse how to get a woman's email and cardinal aural account of aboriginal affair her. Use this stuff, it's taken me YEARS to amount it all out... And if you'd like to apperceive what to do AFTER you get her email and number, I accept some admonition for you. Check out my chargeless videos.
Remember at the alpha of this email aback I mentioned that I originally anticipation to myself that if I could get a woman's cardinal fast, I would be "the man"?
Well, I bound abstruse that there is A LOT added to this than aloof actuality able to get numbers fast (although actuality able to get a woman's cardinal in 2 or 3 account doesn't absolutely suck)...
Secret allure technology. There are abounding accomplish amid aboriginal affair a woman and accepting her to feel a
POWERFUL GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for you... and amid her activity that allure and the two of you "getting physical".
If you apperceive all the steps, and how this all works it will acceptable go actual calmly and naturally. If you DON'T apperceive all the steps, it will acceptable NOT go calmly AT ALL, and you'll run into added problems than you can imagine.
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